Thursday, September 18, 2014

Free to be me


I've been in the beauty business for over 20+ years! It took 2 hrs to get ready for work in a 5 star spa & salon & since I've been retired now for 5 years from that industry I feel free to be me. Women dress for other women. Men dress because they have to (because, let's be honest, men like necked) And truly, it doesn't matter how U look as long as your comfortable with your self. First lesson; be comfortable over fashion unless your a supermodel & get paid to look perfect. Second lesson; know thy self: if u know u are a good person and love your self than others will be attracted to u. Third lesson; if u know someone that doesn't like you, avoid them at all cost. Why waste your time on what they think or say about you? Life is to short to care about what people think or say. Your not going to have everyone be your fan. Most of the time they are jealous of you anyway. To make themselves feel better they make fun of others to make them look superior! And appear to be perfect which is impossible, unless your airbrushed.  Who wants to waste there time on people like that. If someone doesn't like me, it's because they don't truly know me. And if there not willing to take the time to know me then BUU BY....SEE YA WOULDN'T WANT TO BE YA.  I say wear the swimsuit! Stop shaving your legs & pits, and u will find a true friend for life. Otherwise, I don't need nor want them in my life. I've got stuff to do that REALLY WILL AND HAS helped people. I don't have time for faultfinding of my little belly hanging out, or my hair is messy, OR my leg hair is showing & growing .........................I'M FREE TO BE ME ✌️

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Learning to Follow the Spirit of God


As I continue on my journey of the creation of Wendy Christine Esthetics Skincare, I often wonder.... Am I following the path of my true destiny? 


@JoyceMeyer: Instead of saying, “Lord I don’t know how I am going to do this,” say, “Lord, I can’t wait to see how you do this.” -Joyce



Learning to Follow the Spirit of God

by Joyce Meyer
I spent years doing life my own way, not really following God. At the time I thought it would make me happy to do everything I wanted to do. But the fact is I was miserable.
You see, if we’re not following God’s plan for our life, we’re never going to feel peace or joy on the inside. You may have some fun, but I’ve learned that having fun and having joy are two different things―and I would much rather have joy on the inside of me.
Fun is based on what you’re doing in the moment. You can go to the mall with your credit card and spend a bunch of money, and you might even enjoy doing it, but then when you get back home, the fun is over and you’ve lost your joy.
See, the enemy will tempt us to have a little fun, but after we do the very thing he tempted us to do, he’ll accuse us of doing the wrong thing.
Fun is expensive; joy is free. Joy is based on your relationship with Jesus Christ. When we do what His Word tells us to do, then we have the peace and joy that comes from being close to Him.

Finding Your Pathway to Joy

Romans 8:1-2 says, “Therefore, [there is] now no condemnation (no adjudging guilty of wrong) for those who are in Christ Jesus, who live [and] walk not after the dictates of the flesh, but after the dictates of the Spirit. For the law of the Spirit of life [which is] in Christ Jesus [the law of our new being] has freed me from the law of sin and of death.”
If we want to have and enjoy the freedom that Jesus died to give us, then we need to learn how to follow the Spirit of God.
One of the ways you can tell if you’re following the flesh instead of the Spirit is that you have no peace and you’re struggling. If you’re thinking about doing something and you have no peace about it, just don’t do it.
For example, you may have a deep desire to get married. But if you’ve gotten yourself into a relationship based on the flesh and you’re convincing yourself you’ve got to get married because this could be your only chance, all you’re doing is setting yourself up for a lifetime of misery.
Here’s the thing: If your mind is troubled and you have that uneasy feeling that says, I don’t know about this, don’t do it!
Very often we try to reason ourselves into something we don’t have any peace about in the first place. In the example above, the reasoning would go something like this: “Well, I can’t think of anything wrong with him. He’s a believer. He’s got a good job. He’s handsome. He’s nice to me.”But no matter how nice he is, if you don’t have peace about getting married, you’re better off being by yourself.
This same principle is true whatever your situation may be, whether it’s about accepting a job offer, choosing a church, deciding where to live, establishing healthy boundaries in relationships…and the list could go on. Always make it your goal to follow the wisdom and peace of God.

It’s Okay to Make Mistakes

Life can be so fast-paced, and it’s easy to make mistakes when you’re in a hurry. Sometimes we need to slow ourselves down so we can discern between the desires of the flesh and the desires of the Spirit.
What should you do when you realize that you’ve made a mistake?
First of all, you don’t ever have to be ashamed to back out of doing something you thought was God once you realize it’s not. You can simply say, “I’ve made a mistake,” and move on. We all miss God at certain times of our lives. Actually, that’s one of the ways we learn how to hear from God correctly. Sometimes you will need to step out and try something to find out whether or not it’s really God.
Remember, when you follow His leading, you’re going to have peace and joy, not guilt and condemnation. In Christ, we are free from sin and can have abundant life, full of joy and peace. We just have to follow His lead.

Sunday, January 12, 2014

I started another Blog

This is where U can wine & where I will wine. Do u want cheese with your wine? 


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I had an opportunity to meet fellow women that are using the Poshmark App. as well as the Founder & Poshmark team.
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